●General Guidelines for Guests（第2页）

◆ArriveEarly

Itissuggestedtoarriveatthechureralhomeatleast15-20minutesearly。Youshouldelyaed。Don’tsitifewrows，theyareusuallyreservedforfamilymembers。Nottositatthebackeither，uhechapelisfull。Thefamilymightfeelisolatedatthefrontandtheclergymayhavediffimakingthemselvesheard。

◆TheDressCode

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◆Partithey

&imesduringtheservipartiisrequestedeitherviaaprayer，hymn。Youshionanddeilyevenifyouarenireewiththechoiceofdedi。

◆BeingaPallbearer

Beingapallbearerisatraditiohefamilywilltypiehees“honorarypallbearers”—whohaveastrictlysymbolicrole—arealso）。Theinvitationtobeapallbearerisagreathonorandoneyouotrefuseexostseriousofreasons。It’slikethesomberflipsideofbeiobeagroomsman。

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Ifyouaretobeapallbearer，etofu30minutesearlyandfindthefuor。HeShewillgivesyouinstruwhatwillbeexpectedofyather，whehedinwhichrowtosit。

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◆DrivingintheFuneralPro

Funeralprosareohefewremaininghissociety。

&hefuneral，everyoheirdproceedasagrouptothecemetery。Thecarswillfollowbehiurnhtsandemergenkersandcloselyfollowthefrontofyou。Theprowilldrivesloeedlimit。Iries，lawsallorostodrivethrhtsandstopsigns。

Asanormaldriver，whenyoueuponafuneralpro，doyourbesttoletthempassandstaytogether。Don’ttrytotothepro。Ifsafe，pulltothesideoftheroadahelinekeepgoing。Intheolddays，mengotoutoftheirddoffedtheirhatswhilethepropassed。Probablytoodangerousohhfares，buta。

◆LeavePromptly

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