Ⅲ Manners to Address（第2页）

Whenaddressingaantier，oranintimatefriendorfamilymember（usuallyyoueermsofe，alsoknoetnames”:

◇Honey（antier，erperson）;

◇Dear;

&ie;

◇Love;

◇Darling;

◇BabeorBaby（romantier）;

◇Pal（fatherrandfathercallsmalechild）;

◇BuddyorBud（veryiweenfriendsoradult-to-beregardedasive）。

Herearesomeetiquettetipsftitleswheherpeople:

◇ToAddressaTeacheroraTutor:Startformal。HeShewilllikelytellyouodayduriroduot，useaformaltitle，uellsyouotherwise。Usierm“Teacher”isimproper，forthissoundsasifyoudonotknowyourteaame。（Youwouldn’twanttobecalled“Student”，right?）Evenifyouhaveasubstituteteacher，makesuretoaddresstheinstructorbyaspeame。

◇ToAddressFellowStudents:Depescalleachotherbyfirstsituations。Youmayhaveafewolderstudentsinyourclass。Addressthesepeoplebytheirlastnameioshowyourrespelesstheyaskyoutousetheirfirstname。

◇ToAddressChild’sTeacher:StartwithMr。orMrs。Addressyourchild’steacherasyourchildcallshimher。Theteachermaygiveyoupermissiontousehisherfirstnamewhenyourotpresent。

◇ToAddressPeopleOnlihesituation。Youusuallyusefirstnamesonasoetwork，evenwithteadadministrators。Whileinanemail，useaformalformtoaddressapersonyoutactforthefirsttime。Theotherpersonondbysigningwithjustafirstname。Iemailyousafelyaddressthatpersoname。

◇ToAddressSinistrator:Formal。Useaformaladdressuellsyouotherwise。

◇ToAddressHomestayParents:Startformal。UseMr。orMrs。Ms。withthelastilheshetellsyoudifferently。

◇Thbors:Dependses。Neighborsusuallycalleachotherwithfirsthoughitbasesearoduceyourselfusingyourfirsttoseehowtheyihemselves。Ifyhborisolderyouaskthequestitheseeeting，“IsitokayifIcallyou（hisherfirstname）?”

◇ToAddressColleagues:Depery。Inmanybusinessespeopleaddresseachotherwiththeirfirstnames。Ifyouarethenewemployee，otherpeoplewillihemselvestoyou。

◇ToAddressSuperviser:Startformal。AlthoughthispersoncallsyoubyyourfirsthemasMr。orMrs。Ms。withthelastheypermityoutousetheirfirstname。

◇ToAddresstheBusDriver:Formal。UseSirorMadamMa’amforaransportationworkerwhoisnaaddressinthisway:“Excuseme，‘busdriver’。”Thatishisorherjob，nottitle。

◇ToAddressYourFries:Formal。andyouthshoulduseMr。orMrs。Ms。withthelastname。Ifyourfrieyoutocalltheirpareisstillpolitetoasktheparents，“IsitokayifIcallyou（hisherfirstname）?”Ifyouandyourfriendarealsoadultsyouprobablyusetheirparents’firstnames。

◇ToAddressaWaiterWaitressFlightAttendant:Formalorfirstname。UseSirorMadamMa’amifyoudon’tkuse“Heywaiter!”or“Heywaitress!”whisideredimpolitebytherestaurantstaffandyouwillprobablynotreceivefriendlyservice。Ifyularer，youwillestablisharelationshipwiththerestaurantorcaféstaff。Thenyouaddressthestaffbytheirfirstnames。

◇ToAddressHairstylistorBeautyCareWorker:Firsthebeautyindustrymostpeoplewouldliketousetheirfirstnames。Somemayhaveniames，youaddresstheirniamesermitted。

◇ToAddressaerServiceClerk:etag。Someclerks（orrestaurantservers）wearags，whichsay，“Hi，mynameisDanny。”Inthiscaseitisokaytoaddresshisfirsthankyou，Danny”or“Danny，efindthehamburgers?”Ifthereisag，useSirorMa’am。