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Text A Life with Daughters Watching the Miss America Pageant(第1页)

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TextALifewithDaughters:WatgtheMissAmerit

GeraldEarly

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GeraldEarly(1952- )isMerleKlingProfessorofModerers,PrlishandofAfridAfro-AmeriStudies,Directoroftheanities,aheAmeriAcademyofArtsandSces。HeisanAmeriessayistandAmericulturecritic。Hisresearterestsierature,Afri-Americulture(1940-1960),Afro-Ameriautobiography,non-fiprose,etc。Hisfather,abaker,diedwhenEarlywashsold,leavinghismother,apreschoolteacher,toraisehimandhistwosistersonherown。Livinginapoorareaofthecity,EarlygrewupbefriendiheFifthareetgangs,thoughheneverbecameamemberhimself。

GeraldEarlyisoshyawayfromtrthepowerofthepeAmeridissuesofrace。AfterthefatalpoliichaelBrown,aeenager,inAugust2014i。Lusoeanessayfazihecity’sracialdivisionsandcludedthatthere“remainsinSt。LouisaseAfri-Amerisarestrangersinastrangeland”。

Promptsf

1。Whatistherealreasohhters’iiests?

2。Whatisthewhite-culturestereotypeofablaanlike?

3。Whatdoestheauthormeanby“royalty”inParagraph2?

4。Howhasbeautytestretyears?

5。WhatistheattitudeofGeraldEarly’sdaughtersto>

6。WhatwasLiudeaboutherhairstyleandhero>

7。Haveyoueverexperienjunofoppressioionisticdesire:self-ess”?Describeit。

8。Howdidthemotherrespondtotheproblemsinschoolcausedbythegirls’hairstyle?

9。Whyisthemainsttheideaofhavingthegirl’searspierced?

10。Howdidtheauthorihisdaughter’sreply“maybe”inParagraphs7to8?

11。Goffmaisblaeheyaremothers,whoperpetuatetheirsenseofiybypassingitontotheir。Whatdoesitmean?Whatisyourattitudetowardsthisstatement?

[1]Mydaughters,Lien,andRosalind,ageseveaunsofbeautytestsihreeyears。Inthattimetheyhavewattheirey,severalMissAmerits,oneMissBlackAmeritest,andoneMissUSA。Atfirst,Iascribedthistothesameimpulsethatmademywifeiediswhele:somethilyfemale,justasainprofessihtbeasethingpeculiarlymale。Probablyitisasortofreseblackgirlsharbortowardthesetests。Butthatotreallybethecasewithmydaughters。Afterall,theyhaveseenseveralblatsisandhaveevenseenblaers。Theyalsohaveblackdolls。

[2]Bathefallof1983whenVanessaWilliams1becameMissAmerica,we,asafamily,hadourpicturetakenwithherwheedSt。Louis。ifeandI,trawhenopularculturedebraceblaeherthansexualsubversivesorfat,kindlymaidsgupandgforwhitefamilies。Wehadourown,well,royalty,andrinsmeaopeoplewhohavebeeheirmythsatohumanblood。WhitewomenreformersmaybereadytoscraptheMissAmeritest。(Ahaslyrespohecriticismithasbeeoiyearsbymutihefleshieraspectsramwhile,iobeevey-riddenmiddle-classdream-wish,emphasizingmoreahemagicofedudscholarlyattaiisthatsigforprofessionalismameoiswomeatoftheprofessioowihingiion。ButifthereisamovementafdowainfinallyonMissAmerica,myartofit:“anttoreformahingslestartgettirainthey’vebeenenjoyiharmdoestheMissAmeritestdo?”None,Isuppose,especeblaenhavebeen>

[3]LiandRosaliooyouVanessaWilliamstoreythingaboutthepictures,buttheyareamazedtoseethemselvesinabright,colorPolaroidpictureersoofawhiotstrikeatheiressbecausetheyberbeihappeeheyattaysighepicturesatall。TheythinkVanessaisverypretty,prettierthaher,buttheyattaifigpretty—thatistosay,norealvalue;theywouldnotadmiresomeonesimplybecauseheorshewasgood-lookihinkWilliamsisbeautiful,buttheydonotwishthatshewastheirmother。Andthisissueofbeiifulisakenlightlyinthelifeofablackgirl。AbouttwoLiedschoolwishingaloudthatherhairwaslongandblondsothatshegitabout,thewayshesawmaeclassmatesdoiendsaschoolthatismorethae,itseemediomywifethathterswouldbeeseherappearahistimeLi’shairwasnhtenedainbraids。Oddly,despitethefactthatshewantedadifferenthairstylethatwouldpermitherhairto“blowinthewind”,sotospeak,shevehementlyopposedhavingitstraightehoughmywifehasstraightenedhair,afterhavingwornanAfro3forseveralyears。IamnotsurewhyLiwaraightened;perhaps,afterseeieenagehaveherhairstraightenedonseveralos,theprocesshteeful。Actually,Idonotthiedtogeherhairtobebeautiful;shewaobelikeeveryoperhapsthisissimplywishfulthinkingherewithwordsbeetmusthavefeltherdifferengakindofuglisheisnotagirlwhoissubjecttoillusioayearearlier,whenshehadhadaparticularlyroughdayinschool,Itoldher,ironizingwaywithadaughter,thatIthoughtshewasthemostbeautifulgirlintheworld。ShelookedatmestrangelywhenIsaidthatater-of-factly:“Idon’tthiifulatall。IthinkI’mjustordihingwrongwiththat,isthere,Daddy?Justtobeordinary?”“Areyouunhappytobeordinary?”Iasked。Shethoughtforamoment,thensaidquietlyandfinally,“No。Areyou?”

[4]Hairstraightening,therefore,tionandwouldnothavebeenevehadwa,becausemyosedtohavi’shairstraightefirst,Libegangoingtoschoolwithherhairuuhisturobeadisastroushairdo,asherhairshrankduringthecourseofadaytoatangledmess。Finally,mywifedecidedtohavebothLiandRosaliAfrohaircuts。Ostensibly,thisroblemoftakingswimlessthesummer。Iwastoe’swishesforawhitehairstyleby,i,fanypossibilitythatsheotelycapturesuchalook。Rosalind’shairwascutsothatLiwouldshewasbei。(Alas,thetrialsofbeingboththesedtheyoungerchild!)Atfirst,thehaircutsyproblemsinseofthe—bothbladwhite—madefunofthem。Brilloheads,theyweredfungusandAfroheads。OnegroupofblackgirlsatschoolrefusedtoplaywithLi。“Youlooksouglywiththatshorthair,”theywouldsay。“Whydon’tyouwearyhtlikeyourmom。Yourmom’shairissopretty。”Theime,thegirlswereiggersbyawhitetheirschoolbus,althoughIthiheydaughterspletelyuhegravityofthatobsity4。PeopleiswouldrefertothemasboysuheywerewearihgirlswentthroughaperiodwhentheysufferedmostathatparticularAmeridisease,thatparticularlyAfri-Ameridisease,theofoppressioionisticdesire:self-ess。Theythoughtabouttheirhairallthetime。Mywifecalledtheparentsofthewhoteasedthem。Theteasihemostpart,althoughafewoftheblackgirlsremaithatthewhitesselestedthatLisandRosalind’shairbestraightened。“I’mwhite,”hesaid,“andmaybeIshouldhis,buttheymightfeelmorefortableiftheyworeadifferenthairstyle。”Mywifeahatbitofadvice。Shehadthemweardressesmoreoftehemlookunmistakablylikegirls,althoughsherefusedoutofhandmysuggestionofhavingtheirearspierced。Sheiscedthatpiercedearsarejustaformofmutilation,primitivetattpassingitselfoffassomethingfashioually,thegirlsbecameusedtotheirhair。haheyhardlythinkaboutit,andevewearsasweatsuitorjeahinkssheisaboybecausesheisbuddis。PoorRosalindstillsuffersonosupermarketsbecausesheshowsnurity。Oetlookathermother’sverylongaraighthair,thehairthattheirlsatsire,alwaysgitpretty,Iaskedherifshewouldlikethtened。

[5]“Notnow,”shesaid。“Maybewhe’llbesomethi。”

[6]“Doyouthinkyouwilllikeit?”Iasked。

[7]“Maybe。”shesaid。

[8]Andinthat“maybe”,sodevestheplextradis,theuiveionsofthatwhipromisedyeteverberealizedinthisflawedworldasahereis,inthat“maybe”,theepistemologyofraceprideforblackAmeriensoparadoxicallysymbolizedbytheirstraightenedhair。IntheFebruary1939issueofTheAtlantithly5,ablaedKimbalGoffman(possiblyapseudonym)wrotealedBlackPrideinwhichsheaccusedblacksofbeiheirheritageand,evenmlyinsomeofherbarbsobviouslyaimedatblaen,oftheirlooks:。。。whyaresomanymanufacturersbeingrianufactureofbleagpreparations?Whyarehair-straighteningbsfoundinnearlyeveryNegrohome?Whyisthefollowingremarkmadesooftentoanewbornbaby,whengrandmaorausitforthefirsttime?“TellMothershemustpin。Ifshedoesn’t,yonnahaveasure’noughdarkynose。”

[9]AgtoGoffman,blaotexploitwhatsocietyhasgiveheyaresimplyashamedtohavewhattheyhave,taiiswithbeingassociatedwithadegradedpeople,andloeortohavepossessionsthatwouldacdofwhitestatus。Intheessay,blaeralreceivetheirshareofcriticismbutonlyblaeiagender-specificwaythattheiriseofiygphysicalappearanceisaparticularlydangerousformofreaasitstigmatizeseaeratioffman,itisblaeheyaremothers,whoperpetuatetheirsenseofiybypassingitontotheir。InthislargelyDuBoffmanadvises,“inalityisthebaeress。”And,inthissense,inalitymeaandingblaessassomethinguntrolledoruwhitessayitis。Thisistheidealismofracepridethatdemandsbothpurityandparity。

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