第50章 支持自己的观点(第1页)
第50章支持自己的观点!
SupporttheDeake!
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Whenyoumakeadeepdeethingortomakeage,itisagoodideatoesupportsandsustainsthede。
Thisisespeciallyimportantasthereareprobablyalreadyinplaceoldhabitsthatsupportpreviousdes,habitsthatmayhavesomelifeoftheirown,andthatmaytendtoueontheirown…outofhabit…untilaheyarereplacedwithhabitsthatsupportyournewde。
Howyouesupportsade?Therearemanyendingupoances。Herearesomepossibilitiestohelpyougetstarted:
1。Askothers,enlistaherstohelpsupportyournewdeple,atacelebratio,atchwhatyoueat—insteadofallowiopressureyouinto“enjoyiingwhatyouUSEDtoeat,askthemtohelpyoukeepyourselfontradtohelpyouwardoffotherpeoplewhomightpressyoutoeatinyourold>
2。Makephysigesinyourwspacethatsupportsandisihyournewde。
&hesthatsuityournewde。
4。Createaspacethatwillmakeroomforwhatyouwant。Mightbeagarageforanewcar,floorspaewfurnitureorater,orspaexercisebike…forieaspacethatbefilledant。
5。Re-workyoursdyourhabitsaosupportwhatyoudecidedfor。Whenwillyoutakestepsthatarerelatedtoandsupportyourde?
&hersinyourpersonalorworkunityofyournewdedaskfortheirhelpandsupport。
7。Ifyouareioftelliiioa。。。thensiderkeepi,andusingallthateolementingyournewdedSHOWpeopletheresults。
8。uepeopleaboutyourdedassociatelesswiththosewhosupportyourolddedassociatemorewithpeoplewhoortyournewde。
9。Planalegaethiimplieshaviyournewde。Fothat。
10。Payattentio,aionsthatsupportyournewdetoliveiureorthepast。Livethewayyouwanttolive,now。
当你明确要做某件事情或做某项改变时,应该营造一个支持你的环境。
尤其是当原来的观点已经成为一种习惯,而且这种习惯有一定的生命力,会一直存在下去,直到你的观点取代它成为一种习惯。
怎样营造支持你的决定的环境呢?根据不同的情况有许多不同的方法。下面有几种方法供你选择。
1.寻求他人来支持自己的新决定。例如,在某次庆典上,你想自己挑选饭菜,不想被别人邀请吃你以前习惯吃的饭菜,你可以告诉一些人你的想法,让他们帮你。