第19章 我们为什么不快乐 5(第2页)
2。Whenyoutrulyeone,youdon’tlookforfaults。。。
carefor:喜欢;牵挂;注重;照料;计较
欢乐是一门哲学
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WilliamK。Va,whevisited-ople,onedayinvitedtheelder,socelebratedforhispowersasamimic,ehecityatthetime,togiveaprivatereboardhisyagintheBosphorus。spokethreeofhismonologues。Afewdaysafterwardsreceivedthefollowingmemorandumfromthemillionaire:
“Yhttearstooureyesaoourhearts。Sinceallphilreedthatlaughioweeping,youratwithmestandsthus:
“Fortears,sixtimes:$600
Fhter,twelvetimes:$2,400
——$3,000
Kindlyaowledgereceiptofenclosedcheck。”
“Ifindnonsensesingularlyrefreshing,”saidTalleyrand。Thereisgoodphilosophyinthesaying,“Laughandgrowfat。”Ifeverybodykhephterasahealthtonidlifeproloingeofsadnesswhiowcloudsourfacewelydisappear,andmanyphysiswouldfindtheirogone。
Thephterwasgivenustoserveawisepurposeinourey。ItisNature’sdeviceftheinternalansandgivithesametime。
Laughterbeginsinthelungsanddiaphragm,settingtheliver,stomadotherinternalansintoaquick,jelly-likevibration,whichgivesapleasaionandexercise,almostequaltothatofh。
Durihemovemeomacharesimilart。Everytimeyoutakeafullbreath,orwhenyouatewell,thediaphragmdesdgivesthestomaextrasqueezea。
&laughiomag,hurryiiveprocess。Theheartbeatsfaster,ahebloodboundingthroughthebody。“Thereisnot,”saysDr。Greeerorlittleiheminuteblood-vesselsofthehumanbodythatdoesnotfeelsomewaveletfromthesoedbyagh。”Ierms,itstimulatesthevasomotorters,andthespasmoditraoftheblood-vesselscausesthebloodtoflowquickly。Laughteracceleratestherespiration,ahandglowstothewholesystem。Itbrightenstheeye,iheperspiratiohechest,forcesthepoisonedairfromtheleast-usedlungdtehatexquisitepoiseorbalancewhichwecallhealth,whichresultsfromtheharmoniousaofallthefunsofthebody。Thisdelicatepoise,whichmaybedestroyedbyasleeplessnight,apieceofbadnews,bygrieforay,isoftenwhollyresth。
&y,andfeararegreatenemiesofhumanlife。Adepressed,sour,melancholysoul,alifewhichhasceasedtobelieveinitsowsowsownmission,alifewhiksintetatingaimlessness,hasbeecrippledanduseless。Weshouldfightagainsteveryiehemind,aswewouldagaiioisuruethat,asarule,themindhaspthentheperiodofyouthfulahay,preservingandrenewingphysicallifebyastalwartmeh。
&herdayofamaninaneighbcitywhowasgivenuptodie;hisrelativesweresentfor,achedathisbedside。Butanoldace,who,assuredhimsmilinglythathewasallrightandwouldsooalkedinsuchastrainthatthesiwasforcedtolaugh;asorousedhissystemthatherallied,andhewassoon
WasitnotShakespearewhosaidthat“alightheartliveslong?”
Physiologytellsthestreatsympathetiervesarecloselyallied;acarriesbadhehead,thehestomachareaffedigestionesoenanesdoleful。Laughwhenyou;itisacheapmedie。
&isaphilosophynotwelluheemisurgeohatweoughttobeginwiththebabiesandtraiohabitsofmirth: