第37章 以爱之名 10（第2页）

2。Butthingsare____wheareattheoppositesex。Ifamaa____formorethan10sedrefusestaze，hisiiohatis，hewishestoattractherattention，to____heruhatheisadmiringher。

小试身手

1。我们的眼睛能准确地传达一些信息。

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2。过久地盯着别人看会给人一种粗鲁和侵犯的感觉。

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3。目光交流应该根据双方的关系和特定场合来进行。

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短语应用

1。Ifamaawomahan10sedrefusestaze。。。

&o：拒绝；不愿；不肯

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2。。。。thatis，hewishestoattractherattention。。。

attrae’sattention：吸引某人注意

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爱的两个世界

TheLoverandtheBeloved

卡森？麦卡勒斯／cCullers

Firstofall，loveisajoiweethefactthatitisajointexperiemeanthatitisasimilarexperiewopeopleiherearetheloverandthebeloved，butthesetwodifferenttries。Oftenthebelovedisonlyastimulusforallthestored-uplovewhichhaslaihintheltimehitherto。Andsomehoweveryloverknowsthis。Hefeelsinhissoulthathisloveisas。Heestokrangeloisthisknowledgewhichmakeshimsuffer。Sothereisohiodo。Hemusthousehislovewithinhimselfasbesthe；hemustselfaorld—aworldiraeiitbeaddedherethatthisloveraboutwhomwespeaknecessarilybeayoungmansavingforaweddingring—thislover，woman，child，orindeedanyhumahisearth。

Now，thebelovedalsobeofaiolandishpeoplebethestimulusforlove。Amanmaybeadreat-graillloveirlhesawisofeafternoontast。Thepreachermayloveafallenwoman。Thebelovedmaybetreacherous，greasy-headed，aoevilhabits。Yes，andthelovermayseethisasclearlyasadoesheevolutionofhisloveo。Amostmediobetheobjectofalovewhichiswild，extravagaifulasthepoisohes。Agoodmaimulusforalovebothviolentanddebased，orajabberingmadmanmaybringaboutinthesoulofsomeoenderaherefore，thevalueandqualityofaermiheloverhimself。